The Cafe'

You must be wondering what an alpha female is I mean we hear the term all the time and the image that comes to mind is some manly ball busting woman who loathes men, or in the other extreme a beautiful woman who eats men for breakfast while sipping on a mug of “man tears” in her favorite coffee mug.  I consider myself an Alpha female but I definitely don’t identify with either one of these extreme examples. So what is an Alpha Female? In my opinion an Alpha female is a very strong-willed woman.  She is not your damsel...

I have such a soft spot for women I more than anything want for any woman I come in contact with whether it be through social media or personally to be as successful as they want to be.  I realize everyone has a different definition of success so whatever you deem as successful I want that for you. I remember when I was 20 with a newborn in my arms at Tampa General Hospital and I remember PROMISING him that no matter what I would look out for him and make sure he had the best.  I also told him...

  This coffee mug is a definite hit!I have had so many people ask me about this mug and why would I make something with the word "Bitch" on it.  Isn't that glorifying bad behavior they would ask? And my answer to that is absolutely NOT.  To me it depends on what you take that word to mean...I view this word as a sign of courage and strength and the amount of courage and strength that we as women have to possess in order to make it in this world.Many of us have been hurt beyond anybody's wildest imaginations and yet...

So I was sitting here drinking my after dinner coffee, thinking about what I have to do for tomorrow and I started thinking about the FB live I did yesterday.  If you missed it you can find it here:    When you get a chance go and check it out. Anyways I flashed back to that video and how upset I was yesterday and it got me to thinking.  After much thought I decided that I was kinda dumb for even getting mad because I already knew that this person was capable of this kind of behavior.  I just overlooked...